The Romeos and Julias nowadays all have grey hair or are long gone. Romance can take all possible forms these days—two souls melting symbolically, the idea that romance is only for boys and girls—both old fashioned ideas about what love means nowadays. But what does it mean if there are no rules or are allowed to redefine them yourself? Where do you start? How do you make love manageable? With the dance performance In a nutshell.